Even if you were you have the right to be. We all are that when we are single or are in an unhappy relationship. People unnecessarily glamorize not being emotional or intense. If I yearn for romance, if I love too much yes, I do. I am needy, ok I am. But that's just a phase anyway. People sometimes turn into stone just by thinking what people would think of them. There is no freedom even to be just the way you are.